Saturday, April 7, 2012

:-0 "You FagGot." .... ;-/ "I Fag Got What?"

     Reading "Dude, Your a Fag" by C.J. Pascoe really brings to light how the word "faggot" effects people. It talks a lot about how the people who are called "faggot" are effected by its negativity. It also highlights on how much it is used because it you can be called a fag for anything from being gay, to just doing something out of the norm of your gender role. To me it just seems like another word made up to once again throw at the people who choose to live life different.
      Homophobia is one of the main roots that the word fag grew from. Homophobia has always been the funniest word I ever heard growing up. I first thought it was a joke that someone made up, now the world has blown it up to the point we treat it like it's some kind of contagious disease. People talk about it like they're getting diagnosed with the shit. I could really care less if someone is gay unless I'm in an uncomfortable setting like a locker room where I know someone might see me naked and like it. But that's just personal I guess. But what do I have to be scared of? I never understood that. We look at gays and other people that do things out of the norm and immediately focus in on them. Instead of opening our Awareness to there Diversity, we just try our best to outcast them like their ways are unacceptable, but the truth is we can't think we are better than anyone if we are ignorant enough to judge other people we don't even know. We don't See through their Minds, or walk in their shoes so we will never know why they feel how they feel about Their Life. But at the same time, we focus in on them because we see someone who probably feels just like we do about things we don't want to do or live by, and they are just strong enough not to let negative reactions from others make them conform to doing it. Everyone does something that they know the rest of the world would view bad if they were caught doing it. So why give others hell just because their secret is out? I'm not saying I haven't seen someone and thought to myself, or said to a friend "That's some faggot a** s***" but at the same time, I don't have any negativity towards the person. They may look like a so called "fag" but I have to respect they aren't afraid to be what they want to be. Not afraid to wear what they want to wear, say what they want to say, and do what they want to do. If that's what a faggot truly consist of then I might be a faggot myself. That is more honorable in my book than changing who you truly are just for the world that doesn't care about your ass as much as you think anyway. The worst person to lie to is Yourself because the moment you do, you loose Yourself. I'd rather stick with my "faggot ass" reputation than to walk around this world Lost and Controlled just Thinking I know something.
     You may think someone is a faggot but he is still your fellow man. People get so much negativity for not conforming to the world, it starts from what we were taught. Things like what our parents say, the media, and the biggest one, religion. But all I can say on that is if you believe anything that can make you loose your connection to the person beside you and make you feel like you are separate from them, then your probably in an illusion anyway. Just think about it. And the scary thing is you can make anyone believe anything if you get certain feelings of theirs involved, and you can control someone if you control what they believe. People should try to have a stronger mindset and not let the fear of being unaccepted or the fear of being called "fag" stop them from being their true selves. How can we ever learn who we really are if we try to cover it up 24/7. And for what, to be accepted by other people covering up their true selves? Instead of trying to fight the problem with the word faggot by focusing in on how bad it effects the people who hear it, shine the light on how the biggest issue in the world isn't the "faggots" its with the people who use it. The people who still fail to see how dumb and controlled they are. Controlled to the point they can look at someone and think THEY have the problem when THEY are the only ones using their minds and letting the voice inside them guide their path instead of letting the environment subconsciously control how they think and view others. I guess all I'm really trying to say is how can you benefit from your own Mind if you let someone else depict how you See things through it. And the high usage of the word fag, just shows how many people can hate others, over some unjustified reason they have in their minds, that what someone else is doing is wrong.




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